What I Wore: Friday 1/10/14

Top: H&M, Sweater: Ralph Lauren, Vest: Thrifted, Pants: Marshall's, Earrings: Marc Jacobs, Flats: Jessica Simpson, Bag: H&M, Lipstick: Diva by MAC Cosmetics, Lip Pencil: Vino by MAC Cosmetics, Necklace: Monogram Online

I came across a quote recently that really stuck with me: "Stop waiting for Friday, for summer, for a boy to fall in love with you. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it.” One of the reasons I started this blog was because I felt as if I had been sitting around waiting for happiness and fulfillment. Ultimately, what is going to make me feel happy and fulfilled is going after what I want and working towards my goals and dreams. Good things come to those who are willing to get up and get stuff done.

Often, I find myself wrapped up in the idea that I am far behind. I see what other people my age are doing and I wonder, “What do I have to show?” I feel as if I am running out of time to make my dreams a reality. What I need to keep reminding myself- and what I hope you all can see- is that there is plenty of success and happiness for everybody. There is no reason whatsoever that we should all be sitting around comparing ourselves or competing with others. There is always going to be someone who has more or is doing more than you. Focus on your personal journey, for it is yours and yours alone- and it is full of endless possibilities.

One thing I’m very interested in is astrology (I am a Virgo to a T). My horoscope the other day read: “What is most important in getting what you want will not be what other people think, nor will it be the odds that seem to be stacked against you. The most important element of attaining a dream this year will be to disregard all evidence that it isn't possible.” Often, we tend to be our own biggest critics. Decide that you would rather be your own biggest supporter. Forget about all of the reasons you think your dreams won’t become a reality. Tell yourself, instead, that these dreams are attainable, and you can and will do everything in your power to make them come true. The one thing stopping you is you­ and your own self-doubt. Don’t stress over feeling behind or feeling as if you don’t have what it takes. Your dreams are yours. You have the power to achieve them. Focus on the path that is going to lead you to fulfilling them, and don’t let anything get in your way. We don’t know what is to come, and that, to me, is one of the most exciting parts of life. Know that you are destined to do great things. We create our futures, so you can make yours anything you want. There’s no limit on what we can do. Instead of fearing the future- create it and make it one you’ll be happy to live out.

Here’s to hoping that you will look forward to and embrace any change in your life,

Alissa