One week into the New Year, it is safe to say that 2017 has
already been more than incredible to me. Looking back on 2016, I am thankful
for all of the highs and the lows. I received my college degree, a beautiful little goddaughter, two
incredible jobs, met new people, explored new places and found out a hell of a
lot about myself. All of the rejection I faced in the past year has led me to
where I am today- a place that I could never have imagined I’d ever be.
Reflecting on what was the most life changing year for me yet, here’s a list of
some of the things that I am thankful for.
When the things that you love are not traditional. The fact
that I have a family that supports my dreams (and the amount of time that it
takes to achieve them). The coffee shops I spend hours on end in- alone,
writing, listening to music. Finding comfort in the unknown. The fact that I
went from unemployment to now having two of my dream jobs in the fields I am
most passionate about- PR and fashion. Being able to share what I love with
others and having them do the same with me. The world of endless opportunities
that we have. The creative individuals that I have in my life. Finding
inspiration in everything. Not taking the easy way out. The fact that working
hard for things makes them all the more rewarding in the end. Being able to
express myself through my favorite outlets of all- fashion and writing. Meeting
like-minded individuals. Finding that rejection always, always, always leads to something better. Growth
and the people who support it. Friends who are genuinely happy to see you
succeed. People who reciprocate effort. Learning new things- about yourself,
others and the world at large.
Life happens in exciting ways. Focus on your passions and
chase them until you reach them. Life is short, it is meant to be lived and it
is yours. Don’t do things just
because you think that you are supposed to, do things because you actually want
to. Realize that the easy way is not always the right way. Create a career path
that you will be proud of. Know that it is okay to outgrow both people and
places. Find the strength to move on from the things that are no longer
beneficial in your life. Be picky until you find exactly what it is that you
are looking for. Never be embarrassed about the things that you are passionate
about. Make it a point to attempt to learn something new every single
day. Work your butt off and find the importance in treating yourself.
Don’t
waste time on things that drain you- people, jobs, relationships, etc. - the
right things in life will not. Make playlists and listen to them in bed. Shut
your electronics off and spend time with your family. Buy a journal and
dedicate it solely to your dreams and goals. Realize that there really is
beauty in everything and open your eyes to it. Give people second chances- not
two hundred. Know your worth and don’t accept anything other than what you
deserve. Learn that three sleeps can fix just about anything. Realize and
accept the reality that some people do not have your best interest in mind and move
on. Look out for yourself and those in your circle and forget about the rest.
Be good to people- genuinely and completely good. Don’t do things because you
want them done for you in return, but know when to draw the line and realize
how crucial it is to not give all of yourself to those who don’t
appreciate/value you.
Take pictures of the things and people that make you happy.
Look at them when you are upset. Appreciate the time it takes to get to where
you need to be- every single second matters. Your journey is uniquely yours and it is a beautiful one. Make
a list of the things that really, truly matter and stop worrying about the
rest. Make your year what you want it to be. Vow that 2017 will be a year of
growth, love, happiness and success. Then get up, go out and make things happen.
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